Yes, love is mystical. It is an alchemical process between source, spirit, and the heart. It is who we are, and all that is. How beings get to love in physical form has a majickal quality to it, because it is nothing that can be touched, this knowing and feeling of love. It just is.
Realizing your own oneness can help with your ability to love. As your soul heals, your brain heals, and thus you begin to experience more and more this state of oneness. You begin to break through the blocks that the brain has had from experiencing the true nature of reality. The more you become merged with all things, the less your heart is closed. You see, as you begin to feel the true connection to all things, it is impossible to hide and shield the heart. The heart becomes free of the illusion of walls, as the body and spirit becomes free of them to. The heart begins to merge with all that is, including your partners spiritual self. With this merge, comes understanding the truth of who your partner is, and therefore the most profound experience of compassion you could ever know. If you are merged with all that they are, how could you not see they come from love and light? All the little things they do melt away more quickly, even though, your ego and mind may react or dislike aspects of their actions or personality. It is your personality that judges something is good or bad, not your divine self that lies in the state of oneness.
A client asked me once how the latter could be true when she knows in her heart killing or causing someone harm is "bad". Here is the distinction: actions hold a frequency. As you evolve, your desire to experience certain frequencies changes. So it is not about one being bad or good. Essentially all stems from God, because God is in everything. Every experience is merely that: an experience. So when you have decided something is bad, it means you no longer need to experience harming or the frequency of karma and pain on that level. It is our higher selves wish that we all reach that place now as soon as possible, and yet, as beings birthed from all that is, from source, from God, we are given free will because Source has
allowed us to experience free will even though we are a part of the whole. It is when we surrender to divine will that we know we are reaching a spiritual consciousness that is merging closer and closer back to where we came from: the divine source which is light.
The more we return to that essential source, the easier we can be conduits and receivers of love. We are free of the blocks that make us feel seperate and therefore we don't NEED anything from another. We just need them to be. Of course, they might have personality traits that match our personality traits, but beyond personality, unconditional love lives, and it is in this that relationships may thrive.
This is an excerpt from Ariah Velasquez' upcoming book release: Love Lives: A guide to a successful relationship through communication, spirituality, and empathy.