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4 Ways You May Be Manipulating and You Didn't Know It 

We want things in life…well at least most of us do. And the thing is, it is hard not to be attached to those wants, and desires. In fact, we may be so attached to power, control, or desire, that we can end up manipulating.

In my temple system lineage, the Dolphin Star Higher Council, we were asked to commit to being impeccable as a person. This doesn't mean perfect, but it does mean abiding by certain values because they not only keep us evolving, but they also help us hold a certain frequency for the planet. So, today I wanted to bring up the subtle ways we can get caught going into lower vibration.  Manipulation is the kind of thing that might  not always be dark magic, because it doesn't necessarily wish evil upon a person; but it is not light either.  It's in between…grey.  It is no different than a sorcerer using a spell to make someone do something beyond their free will.  If it is done using words or lies…then be aware you are working out of the light.

When working with others, I find this to be quite prevalent in the group consciousness on this planet…so I thought it would be a good one to address for us all to check within and ask, how much do I participate in this? Check below to see if you have ever done these behaviors.

1. Buttering Someone Up. This happens when you know there is something you want from someone, and so you offer something you think they want, but it is not from a pure place.  In fact, you don't care about the success or bringing kindness to the person at all. Your intention is solely to get what you need from them and thus the giving is self-serving.  This is not to say we can't have win-win's in life. We can, but when you know in your heart you deliberately are thinking, "How can I make this person do what I want?", then you have left the realm of win-win, and gone into manipulation.

2. Obligation. This one is similar to the one above, except if you have done something for someone, and you feel they owe you now.  In fact, perhaps you may even create a situation where you do something just so you can get what you want through creating a frequency of guilt in the interaction.  Oh boy, when you enter this realm, you are going down a path of unnecessary turmoil for you attract people who will eventually fight back when they feel you have laid a guilt trip on them too much.  Suddenly you are in a psychic fight where people don't want to feel caught under your thumb.

3. Facade. This is when a person creates the appearance that they are accepting of you or something you like or do, but really they are going to try to control your behavior anyway.  Perhaps a father wants his son to not play a sport.  He may tell the son you can play it, but then when its time to play it, he is only allowed to do it in the backyard.  Thus, rather than telling the true feelings and helping his son understand his concerns about the sport (ie. football and brain injury), he has made it appear like his child is free, while truly still restricting and controlling him.  Eventually, people catch on to this one, and it will create animosity in relationships.

4. Create a Story.  Last, but not least, this is another way of saying: lying. White lie, or big lie, it is out of integrity because it is a way to manipulate, and even worse, bend someone's will against their permission.  If you lie to get what you want, it might be to convince someone of something you want to do that they might otherwise say no to.  However, creating a story makes it a lot easier.  You don't have to deal with their "no", and you can also make them feel like they have to say yes.  For example, you may create a dire situation to make sure people think it is an exceptional situation, an extenuating circumstance, thereby causing them to say "yes" this one time.

White lies may not seem like a big deal, but they do 2 things.  They create a pattern of doing that to get out of uncomfortable situations which stops us from learning to speak our truth, and to work things out. They also as a result build a web around the energy field that eventually turns into something that looks like a spider web of negative energy because they have a cumulative effect.

See how intricate this dynamic can get?  The fact of the matter is, it is a way of devolving (did I coin a word?). You can learn to be with the flow of the Universe, co-create, and detach from desire which will ultimately make you free. Or you can live your life following every whim or impulse, a slave. When we begin to speak the truth of what we need, and sometimes get what we want, and sometimes not, we learn that this Universe was meant to be a cocreation of allowing and harmony.  We learn to share and this, my people, makes a better world.

With love,

Ariah

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-bloghttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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Ariah Velasquez- Life is but a dream  

 

Yes, the childhood song…it's true. Every last piece of this reality is ruled by each individuals perception.  What we see here as solid, is only solid because that is the information our brain is picking up.  What is happening around us, is based on our view of what it means built around our perceptions, our mental constructs, and our belief systems aka THOUGHTFORMS.  Even in the state of co-creation, this reality only appears to be different than our dream state.  Certain "receptors" are unaware while we sleep (unless you have practiced for them not to be), while other parts of our consciousness remain awake.  And when we "wake" up, the same thing is happening.  As we train our minds to go into the Theta state in "waking" reality, we actually can experience the same reality we do when we go to sleep at night.  The more we strengthen this ability to switch back and forth, the more we begin to see that reality merges together with dream time, and that all is actually extremely flexible.  

 

Our thoughts are flexible, and even what we appear to be solid is flexible.  Some yogis have developed Siddhas, or skills that allow them to pierce what normally is perceived as reality.  This includes, being able to place a handprint, into something that appears solid.  A miracle? Or is it simply that they have transcended normal perception?  The parts of our brain that are not being used have access to see the flexibility of reality that exists.  In other studies done, it is shown that people experiencing life in this way actually have calm parietal lobes in the brain. The calming of the parietal lobes on the sides of the head, allow for a shift in experiencing life.  And just so you know, this is not for just the special.  This is called evolution.  This is our birthright to see the truth of reality.

 

Why is this important? Well, for one, knowing this, whether we are or not fully experiencing this fully yet, takes humans out of victim mode, into creators.  You create your own reality is no longer a concept, but a way of life.  We have the power to manifest in this flexible reality. In fact, a recent article I read discussed a scientist found that human intention can actually be contained and studied to have an effect on reality, things, people. We are not slaves to our incomes, or to our experience.  We can make changes even if we don't know how they will come to pass.  All that is important is to believe in the above,and continue to focus on the intention. 

 

Many of us have heard of Abraham Hicks and about the law of attraction.  Well that is just one benefit of understanding what I speak of here. It is also to move into the true nature of the mind.  The true nature of the mind is truly detached from judgment or how things should be.  It is free. It is consciousness viewing life, emotions, experiences.  And each of us has a consciousness that has it's own unique way of participating in life.  Your consciousness may simply see all as light…maybe as play…maybe as divine life force aka power.   The consciousness is simply experiencing it and through the understanding that life is but a dream, we move closer to our brain and life becoming free of suffering. We do not need to suffer.  

 

Many of you reading this now have heard this, but it sounds like an outlandish concept when you fee like you have to do something to make this happen, to be free of attachment, to become your Buddha/Christ self. However, I say, start with life is a dream. And then what may come next is that you take problems, pain, and such, less seriously. It doesn't mean you live irresponsibly, it means you are less likely to make them such big deals that they immobilize you. And when those problems aren't a big deal, they become like a humorous movie as the ego continues to respond like a drama queen. The Taoist way is to let humor take over.  It is not so serious. It is a dreamlike reality that changes on the drop of a hat.  Notice how one day can make such a difference?

 

Once there is a shift towards the above, the expansion, knowing, and attainment of the true nature of the mind will come easily and with grace, because it is who you really are.  We were meant to enjoy this life, to be abundant, to create with power.  We were meant to transcend human suffering.  It may not be everyones path to do so in this lifetime, and that is ok. Do not force this upon people making a choice to be asleep.  We will all make it.  This life is yet one drop in the vastness of all that we are. Make your own personal choice, which makes it easier for others to have a shift, just by you holding divine truth in your consciousness. And enjoy the dream.

 

 

With light,

 

Ariah Velasquez-Elmore 

 

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-bloghttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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Ariah Velasquez- Supermoon Relief - August 10 2014  

I don't always write about each moon or astrological event, however, I believe this supermoon is quite special for those who have needed shifts from recurring cycles, experiences, and quantum leaps.  The moon today, and the energy leading up to the moon has truly been powerful, for it allows us to get exactly what we need to do to make change.  It allows us to powerfully go where we haven't gone with situations that feel they have no end, or feel like there is no solution.

Today, light a candle and sit in meditation.  Reflect on the past few days on how you may have been assisted to transcend deep seated patterns or recurring challenges.  Ask to receive your profound insight on how to start a new phase of life.  Perhaps, a new phase of life already began this week.  Notice, give thanks, and gratitude, for this awareness will amp up your positive change even more.  

 

Light incense, and gather a bowl of salt water.  Touch the ground with your palms.  Ask the elements of Earth, Air, Water, and Fire, to activate your personal power to transcend any and all that has occurred in your consciousness.  Take action. Do not sit and wait for life to get better.  Call in the elements of nature and spirit, and your higher self today to be an active participant in having a quantum shift in your life.  Do not sabotage your prayer through thoughts of negative vibration…the I cants, the what ifs, the I am a victim, no one cares, no one helps mentalities, wave goodbye today if you wish.  Insist on only the solution showing itself, for the energies support you now.  It is time dear ones, for your relief.  You have gone through your mountains, and your fire.  It is time to float above, and feel the bliss of who you are again.

 

 

With light,

 

Ariah
 

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-bloghttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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Ariah Velasquez - Divine Strength Comes in Many Forms - 30 July 2014  

Goodmorning to all the readers. I am back...and will be now weekly!  I sit this morning pondering the vastness of the divine.  With the permission of my client, I wish to share a story with you today.  This client has a son with severe behavioral problems.  When I would coach her with disciplinary tactics, she would share that she was afraid of "breaking his spirit" or being unkind.  She feared that if she set boundaries with him, it would be unkind.  Now by no means would I recommend any type of corporal punishment to her, but when it came to not letting him play that day if he continued disrespect to her, and act out, that was another story.  Boundaries were an important part to getting peace in her life, and his life.  He needed the boundaries or he actually on an unconscious level would feel unsafe, and lack respect for her.  Many of my adult clients who have parents that did not show strength in their energy while they were growing up, look down on their parents now because it is part of our nature when developing to want to be shown the way and feel protected and safe, as well as be given clear messages on how to be.  The children look to us on how to be in the world and to show true strength in character.  The question is: what is strength?

 

In my opinion, strength is taking action for the highest good, and not from a space of wanting to necessarily control for the sake of being right, or getting your way.  Strength is speaking truth.  Strength is freeing ourselves from victim mentality (this may be the most important of all). Strength is vulnerability with others by allowing them to help or love you. Strength is taking action that is clear and direct without intent to harm, or wishing others to not have happiness.  Strength is not putting our agenda on others because we think it is right.  Strength is letting go sometimes.  Strength is holding up the light even if the reflection must be intense.  Strength is having the courage to look honestly at self, and stop blaming.  Strength is seeing through actions, and holding up your light if those actions do not match your frequency.  This may mean you take action to deflect and transmute negative energies.  The key hear is to do so wishing no harm and to transmute that person's darkness to help.  If they are coming to you with their darkness, be sure, you are there to help them simply by witnessing, then dissolving with  pure light.  You are there because they need exactly what you have.  You don't do this is in a holier than thou way, or entitled, or even with a putdown.  You do this with complete neutrality about what they do.  You do this by letting divine energies in: your higher self, Buddha, The Christ, Archangels and the other light beings you may feel aligned with.

Going back to the case of this mom and son, it did not work when she said to her son all the time, "Sweety, I need you to not do that".  Often, he would do the behavior anyway.  However, when she shifted the message to, "No, this is not acceptable in our home.  It is unkind." with a firm tone, lo and behold, the behavior stopped.   This is because the true message came through, and it was that she actually needed to teach him what kindness was, not by saying "Be a nice boy", but by actually showing him the difference between a kind action, and an unkind action by affirming which was which.  Hence, she stood in her power through clarity.

This example is the microcosm, of the macrocosm.  We as pieces of the divine, as children of the Earth, as extensions of the higher self, aspects of the Supreme Being of Earth, and emanations of Source, will sometimes experience the wearing the down of the egoic mind through challenge, or through intense situations.   We must always know that every experience is a gift from divine helping us either release the ego or wear down the defense mechanisms we may have that block love and light in.  The Divine may show up as "your enemy", and the divine may show up as losing a job.  If you are overly attached to control or to being in power in the egoic sense, then the Divine Self, will wake you up with love, or at times a swift kick in the butt. We can resist all we want, but since we ourselves are divine in human form, we only do it to ourselves.  We do it to ourselves to evolve, and we do it to ourselves to experience.  We also carry a vibration that will emanate out and re-appear sometimes immediately, or sometimes years later.  Know if the vibration we hold is one of manipulation, or other maladaptive behaviors, this vibration simply rests in your frequency and summons similar vibratory experiences.  It is not a punishment.  This is where organized religion has turned people off.  There is not punishment.  Humans are the ones who punish each other (and other species too). There is creation.  There is frequency.

It is time to let the divine move through you, and this movement, may not always be sweet or apple pie.  It may be fierce.  It may need to be powerfully intense to wake you up.  It may lead you to situations you don't understand.  Do not blame, for it is all a hologram.  It is all you, and the vaster divine co-creating in perfection to continue to wake you up and evolve.  Welcome it, and witness it with open eyes.  See the truth of what you are being shown.  If you do not understand a trial you are in, ask daily in mediation to know and understand the true reason for your situation.  Always look inward, and look deep into the heart for the answer.  Trace the heart back to source.

 

With light,

 

Ariah Velasquez

 

 

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-bloghttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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The Future is Not Set in Stone 

The future is NOT set in stone.

 

Hi All, here is my next video blog about the concept of TIME. This blogs talks about whether the future can ever be predicted and a way to live life with more ease based on understanding time. Enjoy and Share!

 

Can the Future be Foretold?

 

Many have struggled with the concept of being told the future including myself. What is a psychic and can they really tell the future? Well, first of all, I am not a psychic. I am a healer with clairvoyant ability. Psychics often know the names of people and get information frequently at the drop of a hat. I am a healer and so that means when information is to be given to me, I am told it if it relevant to healing purposes. 

 

But what about being able to predict future events? Not one psychic on this planet has ever been able to claim 100% accuracy. Even Nostradamus. Why is that? It is because we as humans have decided that time is linear. That there are sequences of events that lead to the next. But wait....WE invented time. Time is all happening ALL at once. It is circular. Everything from the past can be accessed now, and the future can be accessed NOW because our idea of time is false. Now with that said, in each moment we are creating the future or recreating the past through HEALING and DREAMING. Some futures are more fixed in stone based on energies of the now, as well as our consistent energy imprint and output. What I mean by that is we have cycles that match and keep consistent in our lives due to our personalities and choices. Sometimes as a healer,I can read a change is about to happen because I can read the energy is showing the end of a cycle internally. I can also see where people's intentions are. However, they can always shift that intention through a breakthrough moment of CHOICE. Someone may have every intention of being one way and then in this co-created reality, they have a shift in perspective and then make a NEW choice. So it is important to never be attached to outcome. It is important to make the best choices you can in each moment, but then flow if someone chooses to change their choice or agreement. This is the spontaneity and mystery of life and the universe. We must roll free of attachment with the energies everyday so if something we do not expect happens due to free will of all, we recieve the lesson it teaches, and we continue to live in JOY ANYWAY.

 

Someone asked me the other day what the purpose of life was. I replied: it is to realize all our suffering was always in our heads because we were attached to the way we thought life was SUPPOSED to be. As we let go of the supposed to's and accept, we are liberated and free beyond our wildest dreams. 

 

So...come to me for guidance, for reading of what is potentially likely, and then let go as the mystery of life and the co-creation of all people's actions around you vibrate, twist, and turn into this beautiful matrix of life.

Information for Those Interested in the Healer/Mentorship Program 

Private mentorship sessions will not be like you are used to for those who have had healings with me.  They will actually each be a 45 minute talk where I give a transmission based on each topic of the session.  Then there will be 30 minutes for you to share your experience and insights during the transmission session, and ask one question that is related to your life.  I will then spend some time answering and this portion is actually a healing, but in more light frequency fashion, not in a Pleiadian Lightwork style where you look individually at each detail.  Becoming your true highest self is no longer about looking at each detail to every problem in your life.  It is about becoming your Christed/Bhuddic/Self which melts away all the problems as a by product of living this light and love merged into oneness.  I know each and every one of you IS this light and love. I look forward to walking hand and hand on this journey with you. With light,

 

 

Ariah

 

Please email Mark at ariah@blissfullifecounseling.info for any questions.

Mentorship Program Course Outline

12 Private Sessions (one hour and 15 minutes) (One a month)

3 in person session M-W

Session 1: You and Your Healing Gifts

Session 2:  Awakening your full ability to heal and transmit healing power

Session 3: Become One with the Love that YOU are

Session 4: Finding your Divine Truth and Releasing Old Stories

Session 5: Becoming One With Your Divine Truth

Session 6: Bringing Your Own Divine Truth as an Active Force in Your Life

Session 7: Being the KNOWING that you are the healer

Session 8: Your Life Becomes a Constant State of Emanating Healing Light/Love

Session 9: What Type of Healer are YOU? A Saint, A Freer, An Alchemist?

Session 10: Becoming free from the Illusion

Session 11: Owning Your Power

Session 12: Initiation into the transmission of GRACE.

In Person Group 3 Day Retreats:

Session 1: Initiation to being your Bhudda/Christ Nature; Activation of the True Nature of the Mind.

Session 2: Initiation into the Light

Session 3: Being the Light as a Blesser

Ariah Velasquez - Being Your Amazing, Unique Self- May 8th 2014 

 

Hello! I'm back. Until…well, the next time.  Yes, it's been a while since I've done one of these, but I know they are helpful.  This is one of my ways I have been called to be of service.  So enjoy, this latest infusion of honesty, spirit, and insights.  I have undergone my own metamorphosis, lightening more of my human load. May this translate into a balance between joyfulness while holding the "seriousness" of these matters .  You could say, it was the Mystic Christ that did it, deepening my love for all, and for self.  And that Mystic Christ is me and you.  We are the living body of the Christ manifested now in several forms.  Or the living body of whichever Ascended forms you relate to.  Perhaps it's the Buddha.  It's all one anyway. Basically we are ascended humans living in bodies...at least we always are in one time and space.  You see, all time is now. Multiple realities exist all at once.  It's ok if you don't believe this fully.  Try the idea on for maybe a day, and see how it feels. See if it allows you to live life more as the way you want to live. And that leads me gracefully into todays topic.

 

It's not always so simple to be you; to live life functioning in a way that works best for who you and I are as individuals, with our own design.  This week, the theme for my work with clients has been living life exactly in a way that supports who you are, and what you are here to do.  Sounds so simple doesn't it? I mean, it's YOU. Shouldn't it be easy to just do what you were put here to do?  Oh dear, but then there is that unconscious mind. Oh, and don't forget the pesky samskaras trapped in our nadis.  If I have lost some of you with this Hindu lingo, please do look it up.  Oh, fine,I'll just tell you. It's the karmas that get trapped in our meridians.  It is often, the blocks that hold us back, that we don't even know about.  That's why mantra and meditation is so darn helpful.  It works it's alchemy into those nadis, and brings in more light to the darkness.  One of my favorites for this is Sai Baba's version of the Gayatri Mantra.  Boy, is that powerful.  Or girl, is that strong!

I hear so many want to change jobs, or do something they have always dreamed of to finally be happy…and yet there is something in the way from actualizing it.  One of the biggest things in the way is simply fear.  And another is lack of commitment for doing what it takes to make it happen.  These two reasons result in the environment, or your reality, blocking you from the very thing you want.  It will show up like an impossible mountain that is not your fault.  It will show up as a life circumstance that keeps you trapped in the old home you used to live in, or the job that no longer serves you.  It will show up as a health issue that hinders us from having energy to do it. And it will show up as a childhood experience that taught us the wrong way to be.  Are you getting the picture?  It shows up as something outside of you that stays the reason why you can't do that very thing.  It is conniving, and a trickster.  It makes us think we are powerless for this change.

OK, well, the beings of light, spirit, and our higher selves have come to kick some butt today.  They are here this week starting NOW, to awaken us to our personal power to change our reality by uncovering where we have placed blame on the external.  So right now, summon your divine team to intervene.  Ask your divine team, to help you witness where you have blocked your path.  Then simply acknowledge what you learn, and then love it.  Yes, LOVE IT! Love the blocks like they are your little children wanting to be held. And in a very short while, if you really, truly love what you dislike, it will melt away in the arms of your divine presence.  At least the first layer of blockage.  Then do it again, and again, until you have emptied out that area in the being.

Do pay attention when you are getting closer to releasing the stagnancy, because sometimes you may get a reaction from people.  They may see you are about to change, and they may criticize, get angry, or even appear as a scenario where you are being asked to let go of something.  For example, one client was told she was not good at her current job.  This is because she is meant to actually move to a higher position in her job world, and so the Universe is making it uncomfortable to stay stuck in the old.  Does this make sense to you?  It's your time now! You never know what each day holds, or when it is your time to leave this planet.  Don't waste your days feeling trapped and afraid.  We are meant to fully live now.  It's ok if you don't have a desire to move mountains (something another client said to me).  Perhaps, your gift is to love.  Just to purely love your family.  Maybe the happiness will be fulfilled not when you change jobs, but figure out what is blocking you from fully loving.  Ask to see what it is you are truly unhappy about.  Is it only appearing as money or a person?  It may be actually where you haven't put your attention.

As usual, I send my light to you in these words.  If you have read this today, you must have really needed it.  I put a transmission of my love from my Mystic Christ lineage in this today.  I don't always do that, but for some reason, I thought you really needed it.

 

 

With light and humor (alway),

 

Ariah Velasquez

 

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.comhttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

 

 

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Ariah Velasquez - Passive Aggressiveness is the Wounded Heart - 12 July 2014 

 

 

Today I speak about passive aggressiveness because it is frequently a choice when people are not in tune with their own wounding.  It is the heart that longs for freedom, not repression, and when the egoic mind feels like it can't control, or be the best, or get all the attention, or any other games that the mind will tell a person they need to play, then we as humans  (when unconscious) will leave our true natures behind and attempt to harm.  When thinking about being passive aggressive, we may justify it to ourselves, and say, "Oh this won't really hurt anyone", because it is subtle, so what does it matter?  Yet, this is a very tiny view of the the Universe, Earth, and the multi-faceted existence we live in. 

 

You see, every single action we take, has a reaction, whether seen or unseen. When we act from bitterness, and purposeful harm, we are only creating a world for ourselves where we attract and reflect the same things to come our way.  This does not happen by retaliation, but from the nature of the Universe to be our reflection.  The Universe will reflect what you put into it.  It is easy to blame our lives on others, but when we begin to take responsibility for our actions, we actually do create a life of splendor and peace.  When we realize every thought and action not taken from consciousness of our hearts wounds, is then displayed somewhere else in our life in the form of suffering, change occurs. It is said that what you put out there, comes back 10-fold.  Imagine if all your wounds were dissolved with your awareness, so that only loving actions are what you exhibit in the world?  How would your life look?

 

But what are loving actions?  Many think loving actions mean you do what others need all the time. That is not true.  If people need help, but they live there life constantly as a victim, then helping them would only serve to keep them in a painful cycle they have created.  Therefore, love does not always come in the form many would like it to.  It will come sometimes as truth, or even as a "no".  

 

What do you do if you are the recipient of passive aggressive behavior? Many feel safe exhibiting this type of behavior because it is covert, and so they feel they will never be called out on it.  It may not be your job to call out the behavior.  The Universe's response to energy will do that.  So, the best thing you can do is to realize first, the deep suffering this person must be in to spend their time and energy on trying to harm others.  Not only have they had this behavior done to them many times, therefore they feel justified, but they also are quite disconnected from their source energy of light as well.  

 

There a few things to do.  One is to call upon the Supreme being of Earth.  The Supreme being watches over Gaia, and intervenes giving healing without your needing permission.  This is because our souls have actually already contracted and agreed to this before incarnation.  We actually have asked the Supreme Being to step in when we lose our way.  You can thus call the Supreme being for that person and see the light streaming out of a large glistening presence into the person's crown chakra.  You then ask that the light stream into their heart, and see this occurring.  Next, you ask that this person receive whatever healing they are needing right now. If necessary, and if it makes sense, you also can remove yourself from the situation.   You also want to specifically ask that whatever your soul wounding is that attracted this person to do these actions also be cleared.  Ask that all contracts, and cords be cut NOW to any aspect of you that aligns with the frequency for which they send.  And most importantly, call in the angels of forgiveness for yourself, for you past energies that now show up in the form of this person. 

 

Another healing ritual you can do is to call about the Great White Brotherhood and SIsterhood of the Light.  You ask for them to open up a coning.  You then connect your higher self of the light to this coning.  A coning is an energy that literally comes above you and your healing space, and pulls out negative, toxic energy.  Next, summon the nature spirit Pan to connect to the coning.  Pan helps maintain integrity in a healing process as well as acts as a bridge to Great White Brotherhood and Sisterhood.  You then call upon the higher self of the person exhibiting the passive aggressive behavior to connect to the coning.  They will connect because on the higher planes, all requests from the light is responded to for all is in service to light.  Once all has been connected, you then summon any other deities of the light to connect to the coning that you resonate with.  I often use the Ascended Master Jesus Christ, as well as the mighty Elohim of Divine Grace.  

 

When the space is set, you begin to ask for clearing to occur.  You name everything you think that needs to be cleared. Is it attacks, jealousy, blame, discord?  Once you have asked for all of this to be removed, you then summon the deities to replace all that was removed with love, peace, whatever it is your desiring.  Of course, they will not respond to request that are not of the highest divine light.  

 

We are never victims.  No matter what others do, we have the power to create a reality we want through consciousness and healing.  When we realize all is multidimensional, this means, all souls have a spirit that is light somewhere.  When you access the true nature of the person, intervention occurs, peace prevails. Love is the most powerful force in the Universe, and heals all.  There is no darkness that trumps light and love.  As long as you know this, you are always sitting one with God/Goddess.

 

 

Blessings,

 

Ariah

 

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. connect here http://www.facebook.com/ariah.blissfullife Copyright 2013

The Illusion That Money Can Impulse 

 

This months theme has truly been around money for many. Money can be a beautiful exchange of energy or it can be a control device. Money may give a false sense of power, grandiosity, or the flip side can represent freedom.  Money can make people feel like the hero or the savior to others, but then can end up enabling those to not feel their full power.  Money can build the ego and cause it to think you need certain things that go along with lots of money, the clothes, the traditional beautiful people, and the false sense that other should give respect to you because you hold the key to freedom in this world supposedly.  However, respect comes deeply to those who truly respect and love themselves no matter what they have materialized on the outside.

I am amazed at how illusionary money power can cause people to be blind to themselves and their issues.  To truly see ourselves, we need to be able to hear truth without defensiveness or resistance. In fact, if you hear something and immediately feel a visceral response to defend inside the body, chances are there is some truth to what is being said to you.

I listened to a video recently with Yogi Bhajan speaking, and let me tell you he is fierce when he speaks. Not sweet at all! He was speaking to the group about how the neuroticism of people cause them to constantly judge and pick on the things he says.  Those listening to spiritual insights immediately want to jump in and say, that is not true, or this is true.  Why not sit in the neutral mind and receive, absorbing whatever wishes to awaken something that needs conscious love?  Why react with anger to prove that you are ok, against what is heard?

Those whose life is consumed by making money, may very well make it, but there is another way to make it that will bring you much more fulfillment: LOVE and GROUNDING TO SOURCE. The grounding is especially important because the LOVE without grounding equals flakiness.  Love with grounding equals knowing of your worth, feeling tremendous self-love, that it overflows and pours out not only to those you speak to, but also pours out as ENERGY which attracts, more energy including money.  Speaking love, does not always mean sweetness.  It can be, but sometimes words need to be fierce.  Sometimes when people are in deep illusion and ego, you need to speak words loudly or intensely with no more sugar coats.  This is my lineage way.

This week, take a look at your relationship to money.  How does it consume you? How does it build you and add to your life, and how does it detract?  Ask in at least 3,  11 minute meditations to see yourself clearly and how money plays itself out in your life.

-Simply sit quietly, and call your higher self in.

-Then ask for 3 images to appear in your minds eye as information about your relationship to money.

-When the images appear, see if you can come up with 3 faulty beliefs that you are holding in the mind and body that are detracting from your fullness around money.

- For example, is there a belief that you must continue to work a certain job? Or is there judgments about how others should act with money?  Judgements and triggers about other people are information for yourself.  Clear these beliefs through finding where they rest in your body by saying them out loud and then thank them for being there. Yes, honor even your faulty beliefs.

-Next, breathe them out of the body and create 3 new affirmations for a new way you would like to live or a new belief you would like to have.

Example Belief: I have a lot of money, therefore people SHOULD treat me a certain way since this money gives me power in some form.

When you say this belief, let’s say you feel it in the 3rd chakra.

Next: I thank you body for holding this, I no longer need you, I release you. Exhale.

Affirm: I treat others as equals, and when they reflect to me something I do not like, I examine myself.

Do you see the difference? One way has entitlement, and the other way has consciousness!

I thank you for reading for you are me and I am you. We are one. Your souls complete my soul. “I am made whole by your life. Each soul, each soul completes me.”~ Hafiz  Let’s heal this together. We are in this together.

Peace, Ariah Velasquez

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.comhttp://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

connect here http://www.facebook.com/ariah.blissfullife Copyright 2013

Increasing the Silence 

 

Increasing the silence within will allow you to see the deep things you have been longing for, needing, or struggling with.  This silence can come in many ways, but the silence is about quieting the areas in the mind and psyche that are activated towards pain.  The silence can come from transmission from a teacher, an "A-HA" moment, meditation, or by mistake in the wee small hours of the morning, usually the holy hour around 3am.  If you wake at around this time, you are probably being asked by your higher self to increase the silence somewhere that is activated inside of you.

 

An exercise to increase inner silence:

Try getting up a half hour earlier than normal one day this week.

Sit and listen to yourself.

Review what happened the day before and reflect on what has been hurting you.

Next ask your higher self to fill your tube of light and activate your silver cord.

Ask your higher self to reveal to you, what it is you have deeply been needing, longing for.

Sit and listen.

When you receive your answer, allow yourself to experience any grief about this. Let it well up inside and come out fully. This might be tears.

Next, call in a Heart Activation Chamber of Light from the Pleiadian Emissaries of Light. Ask that they bring it around you to soothe and open the heart to receive more of what you are needing. Sit and receive this. When you feel it is complete,

refresh your grounding cord (see a cord of light going from your 1st or 2nd chakra into the Earth Star Crystal in the center of the Earth).

Affirm: I increase the silence in all areas of wounding. And so it is, so be it.

Go on with your day knowing you are increasing the silence by making space for yourself and for the heart to open.

Blessings,

Ariah Velasquez

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.com
http://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

connect here http://www.facebook.com/ariah.blissfullife Copyright 2013